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Here Comes the Bride!

April 11, 2013

nawp logoHi All:

Last night I went to a meeting of the National Association of Wedding Professionals.  They brought in Rick Brewer as a featured speaker.  Following Rick was a guy from SCORE, a group of retired executive who offer free bsusiness advice.  Rick was a great speaker and offered a lot of information in a small amount of time.  The main point of Rick’s presentation is that we, as wedding vendors, need to connect with our brides.  If the connection is notthere, then it is best not to take the job.  We talked about making that connection through asking the right questions.  We also talked about face-to-face meetings as opposed to phone or e-mail communication.  Surprisingly, one of the vendors at the meeting said she hates to talk on the phone.  All of her communication with her brides was through facebook and email.  That is so not me.  I love meeting with brides and grooms and parents in person.  I enjoy hearing how they met, where they’re going to honeymoon, and their plans for after the wedding. 

Weddings are fun to videotape.  The bride is usually a bit nervous but looks stunning.   Everyone is happy.  People are all dressed up and looking fine.  The food is tasty, the music has people all over the dance floor.   A lot of work goes into pulling off a flawless event.  My only wish is that brides come to appreciate how important it is to have this day on video.  Also yesterday, a woman from my networking group told me that she wishes I would have taped her wedding that occured two years ago.  I had offered but she was happy with just having a photographer.   Now she’s mad at herself for not having a video.  Photos are great but video captures the sights and the sounds of the day.  We hear the groom choke on his words.  We see Uncle Joe cutting it up on the dance floor.  Grandpa appears on camera to wish the couple a wonderul life just a few short months before his ends.   That’s why video is so important. 

 So if you know anyone getting married, make sure to tell them to hire a professional videographer.  They can do without the chair covers or the extra veggie trays.  You can send them to me or send them to any other videographer you know.  It’s imprtant that hte day gets recorded, who does it, not so much. 

And there you go.